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The family is the natural place for kids to learn how to get along with others and how to reach a compromise. These skills are important for a child to learn, but the process can be hard on parents who are tired or stressed. It is normal for brothers and sisters to bicker and try to get their parent's attention.

How can I help my child?
To help deal with this normal sibling rivalry, parents should try these basic rules:
  • Do not get involved in all sibling quarrels but pay attention enough to know when to step in. Arguments that involve hitting, breaking things, name-calling, or take place in public should always be interrupted. When parents step-in, help children find ways to solve the problem. For example, if two children are arguing and pulling on a toy, ask them to tell you what is going on. Point out to them that it's a good idea to share toys with each other, because each one has some toys that the other one might want to play with.
  • Make sure arguments do not get physical. It is not okay to hit or hurt one another.
  • Practice "time out," so children have a chance to cool off and get in control of their emotions. Encourage your children to come up with a solution. Praise them after they have resolved their differences.
  • While there is a great temptation to stop a fight, it is better to help children work it out. Avoid showing favoritism.
  • Do not over-react to tattle-tales. This behavior can be a plea for attention from you or a report of a situation that parents need to know about. Listen carefully. If it is not a problem that requires help, instruct the tattler to solve the problem. If it is serious and requires attention, thank the child for reporting it.
  • Children need to learn to respect personal possessions, privacy, and friendships.
  • Be a positive role model. Your kids will watch and learn from how you deal with other people and handle conflicts.

If you feel the sibling rivalry in your home is out of control, consider speaking to a family counselor.




  Disclaimer: This content is reviewed periodically and is subject to change as new health information becomes available. The information provided is intended to be informative and educational and is not a replacement for professional medical evaluation, advice, diagnosis or treatment by a healthcare professional.

  HIA File FMY4333F.HTM Release 9.0/2006. Copyright © 2006 McKesson Corporation and/or one of its subdiaries. All Rights Reserved.


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